Wednesday, 27 August 2014

Change

Lately I have been thinking about “Change” as it’s appearing that a lot of things around me is changing. So Is change good or it’s highly unfortunate that it’s happening. The question is divine.
But here’s the thing “Change Is Inevitable”, it has to happen. What most people fail to realize, typically until it’s very late in the game, is that change happens to us whether we like it or not, remember its Inevitable.
Change is not that bad actually for examples I made a short list of the things that changes over time and we really need these changes :

1. Whether
2. 
Fashion
3. A
n era 
4. 
Perspective
5. 
Habits

1. Whether
What if whether doesn't change it remains constant. Imagine it’s raining throughout the year, God what a dreadful idea or consider you’re perspiring for like full 365 days a year,and now people start greetings each other like Hey Sweaty What’s up. So its good that whether changes.

2. Fashion
Suppose we still wear those Bell-bottoms from 70’s that become wider from the knees downward. Actually I Kinda love that style but we can’t wear them right!

3. An era
Come on, you don’t want to live in the eras like World War, or when Britain ruling the world. We’re glad that that time has gone now, it has changed.


4. Perspective
As we grow older we mature. As we mature our perspective on different things changes .Its actually quite important that you should have the right perspective on certain things.

5. Habits 

habits can be changed, obviously. If I were to provide an example, simplest example would be smoking habits. There are a lot of people who quit smoking on a daily basis. Sometimes changing habits is difficult, but it is possible. Humans are very adaptive. They acquire several habits over time. But since they had  acquired it, it’s possible for them to leave them as well.


But what happens when People change. Do they really change?

    Here’s a Calvin and Hobbes strip


So people change whether they like it or not. And people change -- really change -- when they perceive an advantage will accrue if they do change. They just have to understand what it is and -- poof! -- with a paradigm shift, they're almost there. When they take action in furtherance of that paradigm shift, they reinforce it and continue on the new path.
But what concerns us when people around us begins to change. Like Friends, we never wants our friends to get changed, because you know it’s sad when people you know becomes the people you knew. You loved the person so you became friends, but now suddenly they changed, they are not same person as they used to, they are not the same person who you have become friend with. So you don’t like this change but when you saw that same person is happy with the change, you need to understand that things are not always how you wanted it to be.You need to accept that Change is always good may be not for you but for the one who has changed.


Sometimes you love change sometimes you don’t  but ‘
change’ is an integral part of our life and that’s how life works.



If you’re not convinced that change can be good, remember that it’s inevitable anyway. You may not like change, but it’ll be a lot easier on you if you just let things take their course.

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